About
The Femme Order
Started by Mistress Victoria
Welcome to The Femme Order, where we celebrate and empower Women in all their glory.
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In our space, we redefine traditional gender norms, placing Women at the forefront. men are here to serve, support, and cherish Women, dedicating themselves to making our lives easier and more peaceful. Here, men, your status and penis are irrelevant; what matters is the commitment to making Women's lives easier.
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We offer a variety of activities and resources, including engaging discussions, exciting events, FemDom education, and submissive training. We aim to foster a deeper understanding and appreciation of Female dominance and male submission, creating a harmonious and respectful dynamic.
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Membership Applications: We will begin accepting applications for both Dommes/x and submissives starting in April. If you’re ready to join our world where Femmes reign supreme, we look forward to welcoming you!
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Discussion Group: https://fetlife.com/users/19704843
Become a Member of The Femme Order
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Annually Curated Events & Retreats: Enjoy exclusive gatherings, workshops, and parties crafted with purpose — each designed to celebrate the divine feminine and the art of service.
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Vetted Community Access: Join a network of trusted Dominant Femmes and loyal submissives who value integrity, consent, and refinement.
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Educational Seminars & Workshops: Learn from leaders in Femdom, performance, kink, business, and ritual.
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Sponsored Opportunities: Members may be featured or collaborate on Order-hosted performances, media, or promotional campaigns.
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Exclusive Discord Access: Private spaces for connection, education, and support — including member-only resources and submissive service sign-ups.
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Swag & Gifts (VIP): Occasional member gifts, luxury samples, and curated branded items at special events.
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JOINING EXPECTATIONS
All members must:
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Be at least 21 years old (verified)
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Attend at least two events per year (virtual or in-person)
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Abide by The Femme Order Bylaws and Code of Conduct
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Maintain current membership dues
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Uphold discretion, consent, and respect for the Order’s sanctity
Membership Tiers
Dominant Femme | Annual Dues: $70/year Includes: 1. All Community-Wide Benefits 2. Preferred Pricing: 25% off event tickets* 3. Luxurious Beverage Benefits: Automatic 3-drink bundle at every Femme Order event.* 4. Exclusive Resources: Directory of venues, dungeons, and professionals for creative and kink projects.* 5. Priority Invitations: Early access to exclusive Femme gatherings and workshops. 6. Elite Privileges: Access to group submissives for practice, content, or service/lifestyle arrangements (subject to vetting).* 7. Exclusive Chat Group: Domina-only channel for mentorship and submissive coordination.* 8. Event & Workshop Discounts 9. Access to Mentorship Circles 10. Service Access: Request vetted submissives for domestic practice or filmed training at discounted rates. 11. Leadership Discussions: Invitations to closed Femme Order think-tanks and vision meetings. *Available exclusively to Dominas (Professional and Lifestyle).
submissive Femme | Annual Dues: $90/year Includes: 1. Community-Wide Benefits 2. Discounted Event & Training Entry 3. Skill Certification Path: Earn Femme Order badges for etiquette, service, and training excellence. 4. Private Discord Channels: Supportive submissive spaces, task boards, and event sign-ups. 5. Service and Lifestyle Opportunities: Serve at events, photoshoots, and performances with trusted Femmes. 6. Filming & Lifestyle Pathways: Safe, vetted routes to service in professional or personal dynamics. 7. Resource Library: Access etiquette guides, checklists, and training materials. 8. Mentorship Pairing: Opportunities to train under a Dominant Femme or senior submissive mentor.
submissive Male or Masc | Annual Dues: $110/year Includes: 1. Community-Wide Benefits 2. Discounted Event & Training Entry 3. Skill Certification Path: Earn Femme Order badges for etiquette, service, and training excellence. 4. Private Discord Channels: Supportive submissive spaces, task boards, and event sign-ups. 5. Service and Lifestyle Opportunities: Serve at events, photoshoots, and performances with trusted Femmes. 6. Filming & Lifestyle Pathways: Safe, vetted routes to service in professional or personal dynamics. 7. Resource Library: Access etiquette guides, checklists, and training materials. 8. Mentorship Pairing: Opportunities to train under a Dominant Femme or senior submissive mentor.